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Writer's pictureJenay "Nay" Hicks

Diary of a Zen Seeker: Chasing Forever w/Jenay

"Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite."

I did a thing ya’ll!!! Guess who just hit a major milestone? 🎉 I celebrated 20 years of love with my favorite guy on the planet! 🥰 Now, I'm no expert on relationships, because let's face it, every love story is beautifully unique. I don’t love “relationship advice” because every person is different and every need will be based on your lived experience, but I've learned a thing or two about loving bravely along the way and in this community, we share what’s useful because that is the magic of connection.


Here's one lesson: You are going to grow and change repeatedly in your forever journey with your forever person. Your love story will have chapters—your first chapter will look completely different from your 20th chapter. The only thing I am encouraging, if it’s worth it, is to be brave enough to see it through, my friends. Don't worry about forever (that’s a lot of pressure), just get lost in the joy of loving today. ❤️✨ #20YearsStrong




My Lessons in Loving Bravely:

Marriage is not a f%cking fairytale.

It gets greater later.

Acceptance is key.

It’s going to be hard.

Your partner will activate you; you won’t always like each other.

Love brings you back.

Take it one moment at a time.

Stay insanely curious about your partner.

Never stop laughing.

Find your happy place together. It will look different from year to year.

If it’s worth it, keep trying.




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